Monday, December 28, 2009

Christmas 2009


Santa left Oliver this note on Christmas morning. Oliver left out some oatmeal for the reindeer, and a carrot for Santa. Oliver wanted to give him a break from all the cookies and candy he might get at other houses, but Santa gave the carrot to the Reindeer. Simple mistake. He had plenty of work to do that night!


The sun through the storm on Christmas Day 2009.


After the storm, everything was bright and clear--and snowy!


Snow-covered sumac heads at Garzke Flowage on our annual Christmas cross-country ski trek. The woods looked just like a set from Dr. Zhivago, a literal Winter Wonderland!


And here's a picture of my dad with his brand new thermos on Christmas morning ... with a nod to Steve Martin :

Laughing Luka


My sister, the scrapbooker, asked all of us for our first impressions upon meeting her new baby. He laughs a lot! I've never seen a baby laugh so much! She has even dubbed him Mr. Happy.


Monday, December 14, 2009

Square Pegs and Round Holes : Living with Asperger Syndrome

1972 : My brother, me, and Aunt Cindy (with dog)

When I was pregnant, I bargained with the Universe. You don't know quite what you're going to get until the baby is born and develops ... I said, "I can handle a kid with Down Syndrome. I can handle a kid who's deaf. I can handle a kid with special needs. However, I'd have a really hard time having a kid with Autism." A few years ago, we found out my brother has Asperger's Syndrome. The great irony is that I'd been living with "high-functioning' autism my whole life without even realizing it!

Last year, The Wisconsin Hospital Association was collecting personal stories which provided reasons why people in health care occupations chose their careers, in hopes of inspiring others to join the field. This is the question I addressed :

Has anything happened in your career that reaffirmed your decision to work in health care?

When I was in Library School, I worked part-time in a hospital library. I liked helping people connect with the information they needed to make informed healthcare decisions. I help physicians, nurses, patients, and their families. At some point in our lives, we all need quality health information. This can significantly impact people's lives for the better. Some days, I get to do research and offer the best available evidence for a procedure or treatment, or to help change policies to improve patient care or patient safety. Some days, I help people research a new diagnosis. They find out that others have been through it, and they find a path to get themselves through it, too. That can make a tremendous difference in terms of relieving anxiety.

Consumer health librarians help patients understand their conditions and treatments, help them find communities of support, and help them locate resources for equipment, services, and financial assistance. For one example among many, I helped a patient with a new diagnosis of diabetes find a book written in plain language that told him how to get through the holidays and family gatherings on his new diet! Another patient lost his leg. His prosthesis caused him great discomfort. I was able to get him connected with The Amputee Coalition of America which offered not only support, but also options for a better fitting, more comfortable prosthesis.

I was recently reminded of how my help as a Librarian can profoundly affect people for the better in a very personal way. Last summer, my own family needed some research. At the age of 35, my brother was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome. For years my family wondered why my otherwise smart brother wasn’t able to function in the world. He couldn’t hold a job, made poor decisions, didn’t have many friends, just didn't seem to fit in anywhere … Over the years as a hospital librarian, I had collected several books, handouts, and websites on Asperger’s. With this information, the pieces of the puzzle came together. Now, we know that his brain is literally wired differently. We have a whole new understanding of what to expect, what situations to beware of, how we can support him, what he needs to work on, and what he might still be able to accomplish with his life. We know what we’re dealing with now, and we’re ALL learning to cope with this form of high-functioning autism. My brother is currently earning a college degree in Physics. He’s found a community where he fits. Thus the road to recovery started at a health science library.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Me and Gramma Pickles


I love this picture of me and Gramma Pickles. This is one I don't want to forget. You can really see the sparkles on her glasses and her red lipstick. She looks good--even at Grappa's funeral this past summer.

Snow Day!


View out the front door this am. Picture 2 blue-black crows crows flying up through the middle of this scene ... This also doesn't show the red crab apples peeking through the snow-laden branches. I feel an art quilt coming on!


From the back yard. The Arbor vitae and the Joe Pye Weed are so weighted down with snow that they are bent over the pond.




Snow dingle-berries caked on Maggie's legs. Poor thing. She is not a dog who would have done well in the wild. She loves the snow anyway. She sure makes me happy! ;-)


These are Oliver's new boots. They fit me. I wore them quite comfortably on the dog walk last night. I'll have a new pair of boots when he outgrows this pair. He's only 8 years old!

Oliver gets the day off of school, and I'm also staying home from work due to the snow. Hurray!

Goddess Mother to Little Luka


I'm a Goddess Mother!

On her recent trip to the US in November (She lives in Japan), my sister asked us to be god-parents to her new baby, Luka. At first we were wondering, well, what does that mean? What does she expect of us? We're not hugely religious people. I seldom see my own god-parents. In the end, we concluded that our job is to make this little boy feel special, to be a good influence on him. We can do that.


Here we are at the UU Fellowship in Appleton, with my friend, The Rev. Dottie Mathews who did the dedication/naming ceremony for us. Pictured Back row : me, Christian, Mande (holding Ailin). Front Row : Oliver, Yusuke (holding Luka).


Oliver is also happy about this new role. He was really looking forward to meeting his new little cousin. Look at his eyes sparkle (or is that sparkle from Gramma Pickles in the back row?)

I discovered I like being Auntie better than mother to a little one this age. Luka is a jolly little easy-going boy. Easy to make him giggle and belly-laugh.

CL is the nurturing one--as you can tell from this photo :

Sunday, December 6, 2009

December for the Senses


A warm fire to sit by. CL finally started a fire! Hurray! This turned out to be a great fire picture, too.


More December Reds.
CL made a batch of what we affectionately call "Cranberry Sludge." We make our own cranberry juice out of fresh whole cranberries. It's delicious! It's thicker than juice after we strain it, so we call it sludge (in a good way).